Questions to Ask Your Husband
When you said, “I do,” you meant it. It’s “until death do you part,” but like any other relationship, you go through ups and downs. When times get tough, it’s important to communicate and stay on the same page. Asking questions is a great way to stay in tune with what your husband is feeling and experiencing. We’re going to share some important questions to ask your husband when you’re going through a hard time.
Whether your marriage itself is going through a tough time or life is throwing you curveballs, these questions can help you both stay connected. When times are tough, you need to be on the same team and check in regularly to make sure that your partner is okay.
Sometimes, when life throws challenges your way (maybe it’s a death in the family or a job loss), it’s important to love and support your partner. We don’t always know how to do that, so asking questions can help.
If things in your marriage aren’t working, it’s more important than ever to ask questions. The right questions can help you better understand what your husband is feeling and what he needs from you in this moment. Communication is an important component of a healthy relationship. If he’s reluctant to talk openly about his frustrations and issues, asking questions can help him feel comfortable opening up.
Often, it’s the difficult times that make relationships stronger. When you weather storms together, you feel safe, secure and empowered when you encounter new challenges. But if you’re not communicating and asking questions, it will be difficult to climb those mountains.
When you ask questions, you can learn more about your husband’s:
- Outlook on the future
- Current experiences
Knowing which questions to ask your husband during hard times is important because his answers can help you determine whether you need help. Maybe your life circumstances or relationship issues need help from an outside source. You may not know this unless you’re asking him questions about his thoughts on the future and the state of your relationship.
But even if you don’t need help, his answers will help you give him what he needs during this time or even bring some reassurance that tomorrow will be a brighter day.
Questions to Ask Your Husband
How do you feel things are going with us?
How have we handled rough seasons in the past?
What help can we get?
How can we simplify things?
Where do you see us in a year?
What can we do moving forward?
What’s it like to be you right now?
Are you open to therapy?
What makes us a good team?
What would constitute a perfect day for you?
What do you value most in a friendship?
What are some fun things that we used to do that you would like to do again?
What things about our life together make you happy?
What’s something you’d like to do together that we’ve never done?
What does a balanced relationship look like to you?
Which of our couple friends or acquaintances do you admire the most and why?
Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
What do we need to do to improve in our relationship?
Which ongoing problems do we need to resolve?
What makes you feel loved?
What would you like to see us doing in five years?
Fun Questions to Ask Your Partner
How did your mother and father meet?
If you could afford it at this moment, what would you buy?
Do you have a motto you like to live by?
What job do you think you would have if you lived in the early 1900’s?
What is something you hated as a kid but now appreciate?
What signs of aging are you starting to see in yourself?
What is a consistent compliment you’ve received throughout your life?
What would an ideal day look like?
How many days could you go without a phone?
How many days could you go without electricity?
What are five things you are grateful for?
What’s something you’ve always wanted to learn how to do?
What age would you like to be for the rest of your life?
What is your ideal party to attend?
What food could you not live without?
What one month on the calendar would you like to eliminate?
What is the most boring thing you can think of doing?
What is your favorite memory about us?
What do you want to name a pet, or your next pet?
Dirty Questions to Ask Your Husband
What’s one of your favorite exciting fantasies?
If you could have it in any location in the world, where would it be?
What’s something that I don’t know that turns you on?
Is there a song that tends to get you in the mood?
Can we shop for toys together?
Do you prefer giving or receiving?
What’s your favorite part of my body?